morethanlost:

EXACTLY. 

We don’t have her side of the story so you don’t know what she does at home, you don’t know if she’s disrespectful or not at home, you don’t know anything. So, just like you chose to defend the girl, I’m choosing to defend the dad because of the evidence that’s been laid before us at this moment. When new info comes to light, if it ever does, I might change my opinion depending on what she says, but right now, it’s staying the same. 

And  I’m tired of you telling me what I can or cannot do, it’s really fucking annoying. 

The difference is that I’m defending her right not to be intimidated and have her property shot to pieces and you’re defending his “right” to intimidate her and shoot her property to pieces. I don’t need to know what she’s like outside of what he said about her in that video to know that what he did was not okay: you’re the one making all these baseless suppositions about her character in order to justify, excuse, minimise, apologise for his abusive behaviour — and you need to stop. You need to stop victim-blaming, you need to stop apologising, you need to stop bringing in all this irrelevant bullshit and positing a whole alternate universe where she’s, like, an axe-murderer or something that could justify what he did. What he did was not okay. You need to stop apologising for it.