February 2012
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I just remembered I have a tumblr.
“She died for you, so you feel like you’ve got to live. But you’re actually sad and don’t feel much like living…” Okay, so — my secret shame is that I actually find this really romantic: this idea that Yuri is fighting to realise Alice’s dreams because she can’t realise them now; — that he’s fighting to stay alive because that was one of her...
Feb 25th
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aeraspais asked: Melissa thinks we lost you to Shadow Hearts. I disagreed.

Now I see the errors of my way.
Feb 23rd
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Once the float goes up, God will home in on it from the M71 nebula, some 4,800,000 light years away. Shadow Hearts is comically specific about where in the material universe “God” resides. These games have kind of an interesting relationship with mythology/religion. Deities from multiple religious/folkloric traditions are confirmed to exist in the material world itself and can be...
Feb 23rd
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Ugh.
Shadow Hearts is giving me so many feelings. Because the villains of both Shadow Hearts and Shadow Hearts II intended to “destroy” the world in order to reshape it and eliminate evil and suffering (although Kato’s plan was ridiculous: to take the world back in time by a mere hundred years, as if everything was peachy keen in the 1800s) — and, as established, the in-game...
Feb 22nd
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Feb 22nd
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I sometimes wonder what it says about me that it’s generally quite easy to make me sympathetic to the idea that certain fictional characters who want to die should be allowed to slip peacefully from this world. Like. I read, “Would you drag a poor soul that’s finally about to find tranquility back to the burdens of life?” And I’m like. “THAT’S A LEGIT...
Feb 21st
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cake-light: I just cannot with this Rihanna conversation right now. First of all. I wonder how many times [Rihanna’s] publicist has said, “You know…maybe this isn’t such a good idea.” Do you really think that is what a publicist would say? The publicist probably said YES GO DO IT IMMEDIATELY RECORD IT NOW because a publicist would understand that this song is directly selling the gossip and...
Feb 21st
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Okay.
I forgot that there were points in this game where it literally was a Sisyphean nightmare.
Feb 20th
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He earnestly seeks the escape of death — a place with no suffering, where no one can hurt him. When you put it like that, it almost seems like a cruelty to save his life.
Feb 20th
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Ugh. Ugh. All Shadow Hearts does is kill people off in ever more brutal and horrifying ways as they fight to protect their homes and their loved ones from the forces of evil; — and it makes you break the news to their distraught relatives as you work your way through a Sisyphean quest which will only end in tragedy for all concerned. Why was this game made??? — Except as an...
Feb 20th
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List of characters who are Damon Salvatore:
Yuri “I may not be as smart as you but I know what’s important in life!” Hyuga Damon Salvatore
Feb 19th
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Okay, so.
I’m getting so tired of people acting like the problem with the Grammys’ decision to allow Chris Brown to perform — and his continued success — is the message it sends to women. I’m tired of people saying that the problem with x, y, or z is that women will see it and their response will be to decide that violence or abusive behaviour within their own relationship is...
Feb 19th
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Anonymous asked: sourcedumal tumblr post/17848347194/hexterian-vorked-gentlemanbones
Feb 18th
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Feb 18th
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Frivolers.
Feb 17th
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k.
aeraspais: I’m gonna tell you lot this: Gossip Girl is definitely a modern day retelling of the Great Gatsby, y’all. How you could draw such conclusion is just, well, so correct.
Feb 17th
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Feb 17th
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Disabled people face unlimited unpaid work or cuts... →
Mental health professionals and charities have said they fear those deemed fit to undertake limited amounts of work under a controversial assessment process could suffer further harm to their health if the plans go ahead. […] The policy could mean that those on employment and support allowance who have been placed in the work-related activity group (Wrag) could be compelled to undertake...
Feb 16th
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wingsoutstretched: okay, look, when someone who has been the victim of domestic abuse talks about domestic abuse whether as a child, a significant other, a spouse, even a helpless onlooker trapped in that cycle of abuse you shut up and listen to them it doesn’t matter if you don’t feel uncomfortable, troubled, or terrified by a video of a teen being violently ~punished on a hidden camera, or...
Feb 15th
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Feb 15th
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Feb 15th
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I can’t sleep because I started thinking about Final Fantasy VII again. :(
Feb 15th
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I posted on my fb that “metal fans are obnoxious” and someone I friended literally yesterday responded “yeah I totally am”. Firstly: metal fans are obnoxious. If I ever hear the statement that metal has more in common with classical music[*] than any other genre of music again I’m actually going to start sinking some serious time and money into realising my death...
Feb 15th
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“I’m sure I wasn’t really a very good actress. Seriously, we are talking about...”
– Kate Winslet on Titanic 3-D to USA Today | Vulture (ht weber)
Feb 14th
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Feb 14th
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So, I’m still following the GAME twitter account despite the fact that it’s been over a month since I stopped working there and a little while ago they linked to a post they made on their Facebook page about people’s video game crushes — which made me question whether there were any video game characters I’d consider dating if they were real. I really wracked my...
Feb 14th
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Happy February 14th.
I love you all as much as Kanye West loves Thom Yorke, as much as Simon Amstell loves Ben Whishaw, as much as Natasha Khan loves The Karate Kid, as much as George R. R. Martin loves lengthy descriptions of food, as much as Crystal loves her sock of the month club, as much as Zooey Deschanel loves kittens, as much as music critics love pretending that Bon Iver’s body of work — and...
Feb 14th
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alookinglassgirl: spectroscopes: You know what most kills me about the comments on that BuzzFeed article? When a woman trivialises domestic violence by joking that she wouldn’t mind getting beaten up by a man she’s attracted to you can’t move or breathe for people calling her a “stupid bitch”, blaming her for the downfall of society, etc. — but when a man makes the exact same joke by saying...
Feb 13th
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aeraspais asked: This weekend was terrible.
Feb 13th
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Also.
I might as well just change the title of my tumblr to ‘tw: abuse’ at this point.
Feb 13th
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You know what most kills me about the comments on that BuzzFeed article? When a woman trivialises domestic violence by joking that she wouldn’t mind getting beaten up by a man she’s attracted to you can’t move or breathe for people calling her a “stupid bitch”, blaming her for the downfall of society, etc. — but when a man makes the exact same joke by saying...
Feb 13th
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Rihanna.
That’s it. That’s the post.
Feb 12th
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It really is horrifying
that Kanye West got not only more flack, but a worse reputation for grabbing a microphone out of Taylor Swift’s hands and making a rude comment than Chris Brown did for beating his girlfriend until her face was unrecognizable.
Feb 12th
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Feb 12th
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aeraspais: Trigger Warning: Child Abuse Just — (a) I am not sure why we are discussing cultural differences when the person in question was a white dude. Like, we are not trying to invalidate, judge, shame or condemn the way your parents might have raised you, because we don’t know your life — that is, we don’t know how your parents punished you or any of that, and we cannot make guesses on...
Feb 12th
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aeraspais: I’m just — I am tired of seeing people brush off any sort of criticism placed on a woman as misogynistic, because how are we suppose to improve, period, in any professional field if we are barred from all forms of criticism. Like, saying this does not mean I do not believe there are a lot of discussions can be and continue to be rooted in sexist imagery, because lol, duh, of course, I...
Feb 12th
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“We’re glad to have him back,” said executive producer Ken Ehrlich. “I think...”
– Chris Brown will be returning to the Grammys this year (via pulsifers) U M (via danceyrself) I’m so glad we now know who the true victim of that assault was. I was confused for a second there.
Feb 12th
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Anonymous asked: Ponytails: Not even men who are going to prison get this warning. As the common warning/threat is a rape joke, I won't repeat it, but it applies to all men and is entirely situational. There's no list of warnings or a range of advice regarding height/build or the benefits of weightlifting & hand-to-hand combat training. When prisons require certain hairstyles, it's to protect...
Feb 12th
hierarchia asked: In your posts on Andrew Scott, you once said: "[i]n everything he gave the exact same performance: camp to the point of farce, over-the-top, SHOUTING! ALL! THE! TIME! FOR! EMPHASIS!" I haven't seen/heard him in enough to say whether or not I like him as an actor, but in what I have seen/heard of him (Cock, The Hour), he does exactly what you've pointed out here. In short, I...
Feb 12th
Pet peeve:
Video games which force you to do stupid things (e.g. hand over the weapon of mass destruction you just spent half an hour getting your hands on to someone who is clearly an agent of the enemy — looking at you Okami, Final Fantasy VII, etc.) in order to advance the plot. Like. No. I don’t want to give Sephiroth the black materia. You can’t make me.
Feb 11th
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Okay.
I’m still not over what happened yesterday; in fact, I don’t think I’m going to be over it for a long time. Because what happened yesterday is that a number of people who identify as victims/survivors of abuse said “This looks like abuse to me and this is why,” and a number of other people who do not identify as victims/survivors of abuse jumped into defend and...
Feb 11th
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latxcvi: Also, also, also, can we please stop with the disingenuous bullshit about whose property that laptop was or wasn’t. IT DOESN’T FUCKING MATTER who paid for it. That is not the point. That is so completely not the point and focusing on that to defend someone firing a loaded weapon just to make a statement is a pretty mindblowing example of derailing. He wasn’t defending someone’s life....
Feb 10th
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deadasdisco: tw: abuse “This isn’t abuse! He’s not even angry!” how about everyone who hasn’t lived with a controlling abuser shuts the fuck up about what does and doesn’t qualify as abuse and stops invalidating what I and other people have been through by saying we’re just whiny bitches who deserve it?
Feb 10th
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What if that man who shot up his daughter's...
anedumacation: No, seriously. What if he was black? What if he wasn’t some polished white dude with a cowboy hat and a job in IT, what if he was a black father taking to the internet to complain about his ungrateful child? And then what if he shot up his daughter’s computer and uploaded that clip to youtube? Would anyone be praising him for being a model father then? Or would we talk about...
Feb 10th
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arboretics: aeraspais replied to your post: Ugh can we all just accept that our ideas about… But, there’s a significant difference between getting spanked with a spoon, which I have been on the receiving end of, and shooting a child’s laptop. Like, I think it is a little more than just a parenting debate. i don’t want to engage in this debate much further because i don’t find it productive to...
Feb 10th
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TW: CHILD ABUSE.
webslinging: I’m sorry, have I been sucked into some void where people don’t realize child abuse is more than just hitting a kid?  How can you not look at a video of a parent taking a gun to one of his daughter’s possessions and think that’s okay?  That that somehow falls under the umbrella of “good parenting.”  Or, even worse, go on about how if more parents took initiative like that, children...
Feb 10th
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morethanlost: EXACTLY.  We don’t have her side of the story so you don’t know what she does at home, you don’t know if she’s disrespectful or not at home, you don’t know anything. So, just like you chose to defend the girl, I’m choosing to defend the dad because of the evidence that’s been laid before us at this moment. When new info comes to light, if it ever does, I might change my opinion...
Feb 10th
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morethanlost: In the video, he said he spent money upgrading it though.  If you go on his facebook page, you’ll the story of how he managed to see her post even though it was blocked, has something to do with a family page for the dog.  And this has happened to me, my dad my smashed my DS (which may seem insignificant in comparison to a laptop, but at the time, it meant a lot to me) because I...
Feb 10th
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morethanlost: Her dad didn’t hack her facebook though and while I completely understand everything that you’re saying, parents are human. You do everything for your kid; you, like he said, give her the top technology and software for her laptop, spending thousands of dollars on it and then she goes behind your back and says that shit? You snap, basically. And if he’s the one who paid thousands...
Feb 10th
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deadasdisco: Get on facebook: Everyone is praising that father who shot his daughter’s laptop. I’m probably going to get shit from people but I posted: This video about the father shooting the daughter’s laptop makes me incredibly uncomfortable, but not nearly as uncomfortable as the number of people missing the fact that it’s abusive. “Hey I have a gun and will use it to destroy your property...
Feb 10th
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